But that was also a possibility if he had married a non-mormon. Its always for his prior commitment that we always end up cancelling our plan of being together. Willl he build resentment at the struggle to get him to change whether real or imagined.
Yes; I suppose if each of us believe the other is brainwashed, there's going to be major problems later on. We don't have any family here and I don't have nannies or any help. So, guess whatв We stopped. I get it; I just don't buy into it. It all depends on the girl.
Mormonism is not meant to be a casual part of a Mormon's life but it is meant to be the center. Now I feel like a stepford wife. You will have to convert and betray your ideals to keep the relationship alive. Before I met my husband I had dated quite a few members and some relationships were quite serious but I never felt right about it. Leave her so you can both find people that youre more suited for. Yes, it is bad. I find myself oscillating between empathy, pity, and rage, but lately, it's been mostly rage. Not all of us are able to achieve that ideal but we are to strive for it. I have been with him through medical school and residency for internal medicine, which was tough, but manageable.
Marriage is hard, period. I can totally understand. I figured he may still be finding his feet in his residency and as we grow closer, he might start putting in more effort.