I feel like I am under the microscope. They don't have any time. Why am I still with him. It's not fair to put words in her mouth and thoughts in her brain like this. Think about what you want in a relationship. You should take your cues from your partner, not from documentaries or this sub, on whether your partner's views and actions are manipulative, brainwashy and damaging.
As Joanne mentioned, should you marry interfaith, you will have lots of help from fellow ward members on converting your spouse. And there are questions and lessons that dual-faith couples face that zero-faith or single-faith households do not. In particular, I relate to the fact that I'm feeling more like a booty call these days and it's making me start to resent him.
I've had a super hard time finding folks who understand what I am feeling I have been married to an orthopedic surgeon for 35 years. Just trying to make it through the day. Look, as a shelia, its no different from a bloke. We have been together for almost 6 years, so I'm well aware of what I got into, but it can still be tough. I don't think you should abandon the relationship just because she is lds. I am so confused.
However, and this might sound sad. I just wanted to let SN and AD know that, if you decide to choose this path, you are not alone. The point of a date is to get to know someone better. When we were dating he made it very clear to me that he had no desire to come back to church. His job prevents you much access to him. Everyone has their own sins and impure thoughts they need to overcome. My husband's simply daily things, like grocery shopping, cooking, waking up with me to make coffee in the morning-are far from unnoticed. Can you live your whole life with a husband you doesnt or never will believe in the mormon church.