It's in the Mormon DNA. It had nothing to do with our relationship and so much to do with the pressures and demands of his work. And whoever said doctors make lot ofmoney is full of b. To his defense, when we were great, we were great. Jan 10, 0. Take a breath, stop and think, is it worth destroying so many lives so you can step in and take the rewards after someone else does the hard work. Am constantly trying to be the understanding girlfriend and try to remain humble towards him at all times but It hurts a lot. Personally, I like to have my own identity and not be defined by my attachment to Dr.
Do you think I need to have some sort of commitment from him before I can make that decision. On weekends he likes to go out and get away from medicine usually at a bar and although I'm with him I'm not with the real true version of him. I I must also say that some of them truly do have affairs even wit the best of spouses. Too bad she couldn't handle the guilt and remorse. Sunday is considered sacred by Mormons, and they do not undertake any entertaining or outdoor activities that result in spending, on that day.
If it is already an issue in your relationship, then it'll amplify to an extreme if you get married. I love my non-member husband of nearly 20 years. I believe that we are all on different paths, but that it is possible for us to travel on different paths side-by-side.
He is doing 2nd year Residency. Till then, I know I should be more patient and understanding than any ordinary wife is. Many times, that is exactly what it really does feel like Yes I'am all to aware about those silly answers regarding pay and "don't worry be happy" boloney. Just know that she has been indoctrinated to believe that she wont reach the highest level of heaven if she isn't married in a Mormon temple to another Mormon. I like to think that what you said really resonated with her. She found the perfect Mormon guy, they were married in the temple.