Then on one of his lighter weeks when we get some quality time together and text more I reinvest myself and the resentment disappears because I think things are progressing into a real relationship That's also great advice about how to talk to him. No respect for people's time or relationships. Women do not get to hold the priesthood and function in an equal role with men. Best wishes to those struggling with these big, life-altering decisions. There have been times in my marriage where I have been frustrated and angry by his lack of change. We don't have many nights out and he does sleep when he can but he has a surgeon's ego and so being great in bed is a priority for him. This isn't encouraging to me, it's sad.
This broke my heart. I feel pretty awful about that whole thing. One red flag I have for Mormon girls is if they drink coffee. We met when he started his General Surgery residency at the hospital where I was working as a nurse.
I have been pretty much a single mother most of that time. At best they just try to include you in the community, and at worst you are constantly told that you'll be welcome "when you're ready. Good luck to you. Should I get rebaptized.
The Mormon church is certainly a time consuming church. You should both sit down and have a serious conversation about what you want and what she wants and if you can both deal with the compromise. I tiptoed into my current relationship with a medical student dating two years, med school is almost overand one of the first things I brought up when he was pursuing me and he pursued me HARD was that I would not be the kind of person that would date a doctor. Several of the apostles have grown up in part member homes. The scenario where she refused to watch a possibly 'anti' documentary and wanted to watch church-sanctioned material sounds like a red flag.