But she probably is more in love with the idea of you, than with you. I had a lot of things going on in my personal life as well, so maybe a relationship wouldn't have worked regardless. It sounds like you unfortunately ran into this guy at the wrong point in life. Another simple and doable option is to go online; there are many LDS dating sites where you can sign up and meet new and interesting people. At parties, they drink soda and play board games. You should certainly still date even if you are not looking for a marriage partner. Be direct and get your needs met. For reference we're both in our mids. Btw, you bringing up CES letter shit before thanksgiving will guarantee a very awkward time with the GF and probably the family for the day.
As for the Mormon cohort he will be exposed to, I have two thoughts: And so far as I could tell, it worked and no one tried to drag her husband into the church. But what I discovered surprised me. The fact that she's planning to go on a mission should help. Do you have to leave for work at six in the morning and don't get home until you kids are in bed. He sees all families being able to stay together. There's a picture of the magic rock he found while digging a neighbor's well.
If everything she is taught is correct and the Mormon church is "true" she should be able to research any anti-Mormon books or movies and prove their criticisms are lies. I also think he is not used to anyone telling him "no" or going against his opinion. I feel pretty awful about that whole thing. I feel like now more than ever, I am expected to just not have an opinion about anything or even a say in how we spend our time together. She might not even be living according to the moral standards of the Church. Some of the guests talked about the importance of helping hard core mormons to be open and accepting to ALL their brothers and sisters in the church, regardless of sexual orientation. Keep your power, girls, and keep the marriage egalitarian. Well, you know what you're not going to get into before marriage So fuck that relationship.
I'm telling you the spouse who stays pays a terrible price. I made the decision not to have those things when I married a non-member. A couple of quick thoughts: December 12, at 9: December 13, at 2: December 13, at 8: December 13, at 4: December 13, at 6: December 14, at 6: December 17, at 7: December 19, at December 19, at 1: December 19, at 4: December 22, at 9: December 27, at 7: Also, be prepared for Mormon jokes. Seek advice, and like the chick said, talk and talk and talk untill its all sorted out in your mind, and in his. He's just wrapping up his first year. Their son grew up to become a temple president. While Scientology is way worse hopefully the parallels will get her thinking.