Trust your instincts and your spiritual promptings. He has always kept her at the side, devoting almost equal time to me and her. I am sure you can all guess how this ends As his moving date was approaching, he was spending more and more time with his friends and less and less time with me. If he's in year 1 of the residency, he's got probably years left finishing residency then fellowship. While we have a good marriage but he has no idea how lonely I am for my him. Glad I found this post. I sacrificed a career and instead raise the children at home which often feels like single parenthood.
Even though we don't have kids I know the feeling of spending my Mrs Doctor life alone. I wouldn't just start bringing up the ces letter and the problems in it. The Church encourages people to be a good influence on one another, and she will probably expect you to dress well for her. This woman is a human being, not a caricature of a TBM. At first it didn't bother me, but after a while I started feeling more like a booty call and less like a SO. And so, I always have to think about my son when I have to travel or have other work commitments. I'm raising great kids alone I'm alone at all those same events It's been a huge personal sacrifice to support my husband all these years.
I'm beginning to think that it should be a monthly visit no matter what. She asked me to read that site and write down questions. The house has to be perfect and I am unable to do things the correct way. If she is full on Mormon, this relationship will go one of two ways: You will convert and change your entire lifestyle and personality to conform with her expectations never to deconvert or you will face severe penalitesor you will break up because you won't convert and change everything about yourself. Finally, the decision of whom you marry is really between you and God. Should one belief system or lack of one take priority and why. II do wish you luck. Moved homes 5 times in that time.
Heavenly Father will give you guidance if you listen with an open heart and contrite spirit as always. If you don't want your "golden ticket" of the good life, then give me your golden ticket. I do not see this going well. While it's true that Mormons are not one-dimensional and completely predictable, the odds of a successful relationship, given the OP's description of his girlfriend, are slim. You've made good points about not bringing up the CES letter or anything that could be called "anti-mormon. There are billions of other girls out there who I wouldn't have issues like this with. He has let me be a stay-at-home mother while trying to launch my own business and has offered love and support every step of the way. However, and this might sound sad. The first key question to as is: If the answer is yes then the relationship sounds like it's doomed. YOUR prayers are just as efficacious as a priesthood holders are.