I have been married to an er doctor for almost 19 years. Is this a sign of my own weakness. If you can live with some auxiliary authority in your life knowing that your wife will, as necessary, bend to its will instead of yours, you'll cross those bridges as you come to them. He puts no effort forth toward our marriage - he has no time or energy to do so. His hectic job aside, he is an amazing man, very loving and family oriented, which is what I have always wanted.
The long antisocial hours often leave me feeling lonely, and when he is home he is so tired. I mean, there was no way it could be worse than intern year. It is highly likely that she will pressure you to convert, and if you resist, she may resent you for being the barrier to her being sealed to her children. We seem to be one two different planets communication in two different languages. There are many catholic families with these three main ethnic groups within it. Be gentle with them and yourself. Indeed, it is the loneliness and the lack of time to have intimacy or feel connected with one another that scares me for our future.
She said we couldn't watch it because the lady who produced the doc was formerly a professor at BYU but has since left the church, so she wouldn't have anything good to say. Should I marry him. Sounds like classic "flirt to convert. He studies all day and night I live in my own world and my own circle. Now if your faith is not so strong to begin with, this perhaps is no big deal. We have known each other for many years. And generally those people seem to have great difficulty in breaking off the relationship, even though they are told that it is a dead-end situation that will cause them big trouble in the future. There is a difference between "I wouldn't want to be with someone who worked these hours forever" and "I am really unhappy and will be unhappy for the next three years. I hope I can forgive it someday, but even still my anger is red hot. I know, I know, this is the last thing you want to hear.
It can burn, and it can burn you hardcore. I know some people don't like the sound of "working for a relationship", but it can be so rewarding. Qlee, what do YOU need. You sound like a wonderful person. I want so much to be supportive, but since my family is gone, I find myself afraid that I will come off as needy if I ask for attention or more affection. I've been married to a cardiologist for 30 years. He probably hates even the memory of me for getting him in that stupid church. With so much pervasive degeneracy in the media, Mormon parents think they are safe showing their kids Disney movies. The thing is, even though no one else trusted my decision, I prayed about it daily for our entire relationship.