He's been in the medical field for over 16yrs and I didn't have a problem when we were dating 6yrs ago but since he proposed 2yrs ago I've been feeling very unsecured. I still assume at times that my husband will recognize that I love him if I do his laundry and keep the house clean and care well for our children, etc. This also implies, there is no reason for me to further my education or career because he would prefer I have children immediately. So it will just be for this life that it may be hard to have a non-believing spouse. Everything was fantastic, his family adored me, and he told me that he is going to marry me. Here are a few questions you could ask her. She's admitted to loving me before but she has problems and issues with what she wants.
I am a non-Mormon woman married to a Mormon manвwhich seems to be a less common scenario in the LDS world. The woman I have feelings for is conflicted on her religion in regards to me. If you are willing to wait, then well and good; otherwise, it is best to move on. She sacrificed two years of her life to convert people to the religion. I can't complain about the first 24yrs. All that matters to her is things are how they are because god wants them that way. The LDS Church encourages that young women explore their options and meet all different kinds of people. How many chances will a girl have to find such a wonderful husband candidate. I love my husband so much, but 40 years of loneliness has been more than difficult. For reference we're both in our mids.
I would probably suggest that you cut your losses now. That of course does not mean all eternal marriages should have been entered into or will succeed. Some say, they love wearing it, it gives them "protection from evil". He just saw someone die or gave a devastating diagnosis or did an incredibly complex surgery with potential complications. Some Mormon girls succumb to worldly laziness. Mormonism and Non-Mormonism don't link to future lives.
It will poison your marriage until the end в of your life, your marriage, or your belief. My dad was in the bishopric for most of my childhood, and I was never the person you describe here. The church is very important to her.