Is the answer really just communication and uninterrupted alone time. I hope I can forgive it someday, but even still my anger is red hot. We have not been intimate in 6 weeks now. There is no way this will work out. Marriage is simply not an option to me there.
Do you believe in the Gospel as taught by the Church. Now a basic overview of the gospel. I would think that a comprise between you getting missionary discussions and her reading the CES letter would be even. I definitely don't want to lead her on. Would she want you to attend church with her. Even if the church believes a bunch of crazy nonsense, and she believes it too, I still really like her and would like to see whether we can have some good intellectual conversations about this stuff.
Mormons follow the law of Chastity; they believe that the intimate act of lovemaking must be saved for after marriage. Take the time he actually can give you, and appreciate it. Sexually, risque and the such is essentially the same as baptists and fundamental Christians. Now it's easier, as they are older, and he's making more time for them. Also not one Nickel will be tithed out of any shared funds. Mormon women greatly value sincerity of purpose. She is probably thinking she can convert you if she is with you long enough and is a good enough example. They do exist and you deserve that. It's been really helpful already. Edit - I just read through some of your other comments.
She will introduce you to the church. I have dated all walks of TBM women TBM women are closet freaks. Apps At Your Fingertips. There is no such thing as a perfect Mormon family- regardless of whether the parents are sealed or not. For me, one of those bouncers is my marriage to the most wonderful woman alive.