Honestly, I don't have very good advice, but keep being you and hopefully she won't let her religion blind her like it blinded me. I understand that he us trying to study but I'm doing everything in my power to. Finally, it is a very tight-knit community and despite efforts to insulate you from conversion-minded missionaries, you will be exposed to a lot of people that think, like this woman does, that atheists are without a moral compass. You will have to bring her down to reality. There are a great many beliefs I can't condone but most of them are along the lines of gender stereotyping, and how you apply that to your own life obviously varies by individual. I'd rather marry a rich doctor and let him have his affair s on the side just so long as I don't have to work anymore. A quiet, hard working immigrant but dedicated and faithful. Note, her mind and TSCC were married first.
She asked me the other night how it's possible for me to be such a good person when I don't believe in god. Her goal is to make you mormon. It can't be antiMormon. It isn't money that he is just throwing around on useless things, its for dinner movies normal date stuff that people do over a course of a month and we cram into one weekend. Just going to jump in and then jump out I remember how idealistic I was back then, but here's reality: You will be without him most of the time. A stiff dick has no awareness How's a lifetime of garments and 3 hour meetings sound. Once you both die, you will not be married in the afterlife and she will get assigned to be the polygamous wife of someone else.
Adding an interfaith element means you have many more adjustments to make. Break up with her. I would like to know if this is normal. I am a non-Mormon who moved to Utah for college. There is much that needs to change and many hearts to educate but if we doubt some of the fundamentals then why not all of them. You can ask her directly, or through sources like other Mormons or reading their books. That and this recent article https: They are trying to explain how it's ok that the founder used a magic rock to hunt for buried treasure to earn money, and then used that same "seer stone" to translate the Book of Mormon. Marriage is simply not an option to me there. I know my husband appreciates me looking into it because he knows I am doing it to gain an understanding into the culture he was raised in.
To prevent problems from developing in the marriage over in what faith the possible children should be raised. If we do get married I may have to foot more of the bills. We met after he finished his residency and started working as an ER director. But she understands that I am committed to the Gospel, and will never leave it either.