It MAY be true that a year in, her shelf will crack and she'll leave with him. How to Win Over a Guy. December 19, OK, you're off the hook, mine was in the 70's too, but I hadn't been to CA by then. The ideal, in my opinion, is that she discovers what we all know about the lies the church tells her. Much of it rang true back when my spouse was in med school, internship and residency. God told me to marry my husband. I wish I know things better and would have taken a different path in life.
As a parent, we hope our children will make life choices that will give them the greatest chance of happiness. All those are reasons to give the church some elbow room but they are not reasons for actually staying. Mormon chicks have way damaged views on human intimacy. You should also be willing to date other people. I hope I can forgive it someday, but even still my anger is red hot. That my heavenly father hates my decision to marry my husband. It's a gross feeling. Many blessings to you.
Let me say this so you can get an idea of just how crazy and how much your girl friend is into the Mormon religion: These are known as "garments". There is no way she will may you without you going to the temple. That is her ultimate goal when it comes to dating and choosing potential mates. I don't want to advocate manipulation but asking questions concerning Joseph's dishonesty about polygamy to his first wife and his marriage of other men's wives and marriage of a 14 year old may prove more fruitful than just saying wow polygamy is messed up. Do you have any specific suggestions for discussion about content on LDS.
Even though it sounds like she is very Mormon, I feel that this will help her. I'll paste a URL with links to all of them at the end of this message. Besides the obvious brain damage that you will be made to suffer your entire married life, there are future kids to think about. You are brave and good people and seem to be raising wonderful children who will be lights for everyone with whom they come in contact. I understand the sacrifice that it takes to become a doctor, but I am not sure if he does. Her Religion is the single most important thing in her life.